I'm working on it...

The review will be done...SOON :) I PROMISE!!!


In the meantime...A recent conversation I had with a "friend"....

"I went on a date last night because (boyfriend) cheated on me so I'm going on dates to get back at him."

"Seriously?!? That's pretty immature. Time to cut your losses and move on."

"True that."

"Why play games? If you know then tell him and move on. Let him tell you his side and be done."

"I know his side. He's a liar and says he's exclusive to me. But I saw his text from (day and time) talking to his other woman. About how amazing she is. He has been sneaking around for awhile. Never wants to take me out for date night saying he's sick or has to work."

"Confront him. Tell him you know and MOVE ON. QUIT PLAYING GAMES."

"Now I put my friends pic on (dating site) and he took the bait. Said he's not dating anyone."

"Why would you do that? You're just playing the games he is and it's immature. Fine, it didn't work out. It sucks but both of you need to knock it off. Him with the lying and you looking for problems and trying to catch him."

"Just proof. He says I'm delusional. And that he's not with anyone else. And that he's no smarter than me in this field. I just want him to know that I do know and I'm not stupid. I want him to know that I demand respect and don't want a disease because that's what would have happened.
That would have been not a good scene. I don't care that he cheated. Just be honest and don't lie to me and let me be free. Then go do your playing around. But to play this like this pisses me off. So that's why I want to prove to him that I know."



OKAY... now I have so much to say... First this is 40+ year old. SERIOUSLY?!?!!?!??!!?!?!? GROW UP!

Next, maybe YOU are the problem. Not saying you're a problem, but you smother people and insist that they do everything you want to do. Part of being in a mature relationship is compromise.

Then, ever think you might be jumping to conclusions??! Really, he told some woman she's amazing. I'm amazing....and lots of people tell me that for different reasons. Not necessarily because they're sleeping together. Maybe she did something for her kids or did a favor at work or whatever.



If you think he's cheating GET THE F**K out of the relationship and stop trying to "catch" him. What will that give you?!? A sick pleasure?!?! That's just shows what kind of person you are and you don't know how to be in a relationship.

And lastly, you've been "dating" him for maybe 6 months.... you should be using protection regardless. You don't know him....and you've been telling me for months that you think he's screwing around. Why the heck wouldn't you use protection?!?! Honestly. You're an adult with two teenage daughters...this is the example you set? Unprotected sex, going psycho on him...

OH and trespassing. She's going to get her stuff from his house while he's gone hunting. Just cut your losses and GET IT OVER IT!







I do not need your drama. You bring it on yourself.